I forgot about Carer's week UK

Second year in, and I forgot Carer's week again! This year it was between 5-11 June 2023.

I remembered Autism Week, Mental Health Week, and Refugee Day on June 20th but not Carer's.

There are two ways I could handle this. I could regret a focused week long of information sharing and contributing through walks, runs, and campaigns, or I could blog about it now and share that it truly is hard to put aside any time for anything else that does not involve the core; the person(s) you are caring for.

I talk about #carers #upaidcarers #neurodiversity, #autismspectrumcondition, and dream of a #halfwayhouse.

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